Mohabbat – Ek Ehsaas, Ek Ibadat
Muqaddima
Mohabbat—ek aisa lafz jo sirf zubaan tak mehdood nahi, balki rooh tak utar jata hai. Ye wo jazba hai jo insaan ko insaan banata hai, aur kabhi kabhi Allah se qareeb bhi kar deta hai. Chahe wo mohabbat walidain ki ho, dost ki, shohar biwi ki, ya kisi khaas shakhs ki—mohabbat har surat mein ek asar chahti hai.
Lekin kya har mohabbat kamyab hoti hai? Kya har dil jism ka saathi bhi ban pata hai? Is blog mein hum mohabbat ka asal matlab, uski qisamain, challenges, aur islami nuqtah-e-nazar se uska hal explore karenge.
Mohabbat Kya Hai?
Mohabbat sirf attraction ya physical liking ka naam nahi. Mohabbat ek roohani rabt hai—jo insani jazbat se uth kar Allah ke hukum tak jata hai.
Qur’ani Ishara:
“Aur un logon mein se kuch aise hain jo Allah ke siwa dosray ko Allah ka humsafar banate hain aur unse aisi mohabbat karte hain jaise Allah se mohabbat karni chahiye.”
(Surah Baqarah, Ayah 165)
Yeh ayat humein batati hai ke asal mohabbat Allah ke liye honi chahiye, aur baaqi mohabbatein usi ke under aati hain.
Mohabbat Ki Qisamain
1. Halal Mohabbat (Allowed Love)
- Shohar aur biwi ke darmiyan
- Walidain, aulad, aur doston se
- Allah aur Nabi ﷺ se
Yeh mohabbat sawab ka sabab ban sakti hai agar usme ikhlaas ho.
2. Ghair Halal Mohabbat (Forbidden Love)
- Nikah ke baghair physical ya emotional rishtay
- Aisi mohabbat jo aapko haram mein le jaye
“Aankhon ka zina bhi hota hai, aur dil ka zina bhi.”
(Hadith – Sahih Muslim)
Ishq Aur Mohabbat Mein Farq
Mohabbat: Waqt ke sath badhne wala jazba
Ishq: Shiddat se bharpoor, har hudood tod dene wala jazba
Islam ishq-e-haqiqi ko pasand karta hai—jo sirf Allah se hota hai. Lekin agar insan se ishq halal tor par ho, to wo bhi sawab ban sakta hai.
Signs of True Love
- Izzat dena aur lena
- Khamoshi mein bhi samajh lena
- Har dua mein uska zikr hona
- Nafrat ya ego se upar uthna
Mohabbat Ka Imtihan
Mohabbat kabhi asaan nahi hoti. Kabhi society ka pressure, kabhi ghar walon ki nafrat, aur kabhi waqt ki pabandiyan—ye sab uske raaste mein rukawat ban jaate hain.
Lekin yaad rakhein:
“Jo cheez aapko chali jaye, agar Allah ki raza usme nahi thi to uska chala jana behtari hai.”
Mohabbat Mein Dua Ka Asar
Jab aap kisi se halal mohabbat karte hain, aur uske sath zindagi guzarna chahte hain, to dua sabse bara zariya ban jata hai.
Dua for Love and Marriage:
“Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min khairin faqir.”
(Surah Al-Qasas, 28:24)
Is dua ke zariye Allah se ek achha saathi manga ja sakta hai.
Istikhara in Love
Agar aap kisi se mohabbat karte hain aur shadi ka irada rakhte hain, lekin confusion ya rukawat hai, to Istikhara sabse behtareen rasta hai.
Istikhara Kya Hai?
Ek dua jo Allah se raasta poochhne ke liye padhi jaati hai. Ye aapko raushan daleel deta hai ke aage barhna chahiye ya nahi.
Halal Mohabbat Ko Kaise Kamiyabi Banayein?
1. Ikhlaas Aur Respect
Respect bina mohabbat faani hai. Har halal rishtay mein izzat zaroori hai.
2. Communication
Mohabbat mein galat fehmiya door karna sabse zaroori hota hai.
3. Family Involvement
Mohabbat ko halal banane ka asaan tareeqa yeh hai ke usay shadi mein badla jaye. Pehle din se hi family ko involve karna behtar hota hai.
Need Guidance in Love?
Agar aap halal mohabbat mein hoon aur confused hain ke aage ka rasta kya ho, hum spiritual guidance aur Istikhara for Love ki service offer karte hain.
Conclusion
Mohabbat asal mein ek zimmedari hai, na keval jazba. Ye insaan ko Allah se bhi qareeb la sakti hai aur haram mein bhi daal sakti hai—farq sirf niyyat, ikhlaas, aur raaste ka hota hai.
Agar aap kisi se mohabbat karte hain, dua karte hain, aur halal raasta chahte hain—Allah zaroor aapki madad karega. Har dua kabool hoti hai agar dil saaf ho aur niyyat pak ho.
“Tumhare naseeb se zyada kabhi kisi aur ka nahi ho sakta, aur jo Allah ne likha hai, wo tum tak zaroor pohanchta hai.”